So you’ve finally met a girl who seems to be right for you and she suggested you visit her parents? Great because you are actually an important part of her life. On the other hand, you have to impress her dearest ones yet. Here are a few tips to help you. Take advantage of these recommendations to make the best of your relationship with one of the beautiful Russian brides.
You can’t come to your significant other’s family without getting to know them slightly before the actual meeting. Otherwise, many unexpected problems may occur. Keep the tabs on what she tells you about her relatives and bear it in your mind. Did she mention her mother has an allergy to cats? Then avoid contacting with your pet for a day – take a long walk and change your clothes. Same goes for her mom and dad’s hobbies, views of life etc.
We live in a democratic society but this doesn’t mean you can wear a track suit to have a dinner with your love’s parents. Your clothes tell people who you are. Hence, prepare a clean and elegant outfit in advance; strictly speaking, it should be kind of business casual.
Don’t come empty-handed
Buy just something. Well, better if your gift will be more or less meaningful – again, keep in mind what you’ve been told about her parents and pick what they are guaranteed to like. Oh, and ask your girlfriend if you have doubts. You won’t believe how much this simple sign of attention can matter.
Mind your manners
As those should be excellent. Look your best and be the best version of yourself – this is indeed a recipe for success regardless of the particular situation. This goes for your speech as well: call your new friends Mr. and Mrs., avoid using any colloquialisms or cracking inappropriate jokes.
Self-assurance is your main weapon when you need to charm anyone. Be ready her parents will ask you lots of questions in order to estimate you and they will somehow challenge you. This is completely natural since any good parents are concerned about their children’s future.
There is no need to pretend. You are about to become an even more important person in your beloved one’s life so her family members should see who you really are. Don’t dwell on your flaws and focus on your strengths.
Look, if a girl wants you to meet her parents, she treats you like part of her family. Don’t be distance with her dear ones: offer your help in cooking a dinner or setting a picnic in a garden. Even if they politely refuse and tell you are their guest, you will demonstrate your willingness to become a part of their little community.
Show affection to your girlfriend
Any normal parents will adore seeing their daughter is loved. Even though this is your very first (and hopefully not the last) visit, don’t be afraid of showing your feelings. Of course, it is not about passionate kisses and all the bigger things to do in front of her parents. Hold hands, help her get seated, pay attention to her – this not only makes a good impression but sustains your mutual bond.